Moderate 51e
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>>51d
from the sounds of it you seem to romanticise having female friends, i dont think for right reasons tho. Women usually have more emotional relationship with people. And they crave recognition beyond their gender, maane ora chay na oder ke nari hishebe dekhuk oder chhele bondhu ra. tomar kotha shune mone hoitese tumi hoes chao jaderke tumi lukaya lukay lagaite parba and emnite just friends, so i think tomar intentions thik korte hobe, je tumi ki girlfriend chai naki friend chao. Personally amar mone hoy na friendship er moddhe gender kono chinta korar moto bishoy. Specifically kono group er manush ke friend banaite chawar maane hoilo tumi oder attention kingba acknowledgement chao, kintu tumi keno chao eita tomar jante hobe and shei onujai agaite hobe.
solution 1: tumi jodi manwhore hoite chao taile tomar target thakbe emon meye jara manwhore der posondo kore, upre upre friends but onek sexual tension tomader moddhe, othoba jodi tumi hoes chao taile tomar target thakbe pick me meye ra jara male validation er jonno je kono kisu korbe. In both cases tomar representable hoite hobe mane dekhte shundor na hoileo you need to carry yourself with some sort of elegance and create a persona that fits your agenda. Good fashion sense, grooming and knwoledge about pop culture comes in handy in these scenarios
solution 2: First of all ei solution tomar current self er jonno na. Genuine female friendship jiboneo paba na, harsh truth, its the same with women ora kokhono genuine broship pabe na karon ora meye. Unless tumi transition koro tomake meye hishebe keu dekhbe na same applies more harshly to women karon ora heavily sexualised and fallen behind as a group of people for millennia. What you CAN experience is profound friendship beyond gender identity oitar jonno years of self work lage but the friends you get from that is for lifetime, ora ride or die hoy and will make you want to live life. Ei type er friends er gender ki hobe oita tumi pick korte parba na though karon gender filter kore friends banano jay na emon+